I Could Be Nicer, But I'm Choosing Not To
When youngsters say they could stop having a bad attitude and being
so nasty but they are choosing not to, but they will choose to have
a better attitude when they "get their real job" or "go to high school,"
say: "You're probably right,
I'm probably wrong. Show me I'm wrong by being pleasant for the next
three weeks, I'll admit that you were right and I was wrong." Most
students don't last three weeks, three days, three minutes. When the
bad attitude surfaces after mere minutes, ask them "What will be any
different on your real job?" Now, you may have the student's attention
and may be able to learn more about what's causing all the negativity.
What the Boss Wants
This is a good follow-up to the preceding intervention. Ask your
students to name their dream jobs, then help them consider if a bad
attitude will help or hinder them to get and keep this job. A fun
variation is to ask the students to consider the impact of a bad
attitude on some of their dream jobs. For example, do you want to
board the plane with a nasty pilot? Would you make an appointment to
have surgery by a mean surgeon? For more fun, have the students
consider who will get the promotions and pay raises in their potential
career choices: the nasty employee or the more friendly one? If you make this
activity a fun, enjoyable experience, the more you will improve students' attitudes.
We have bad attitude-busters for every imaginable reason that a child can offer to explain
their demeanor.
We even have surprising methods for teens who say that they plan to
"just deal drugs" or "go on welfare." We have equally compelling methods for
youngsters who constantly say they "don't care," and we have especially unusual
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